If there's one thing that most people can agree on, it's that every family is different. We all have challenges and changes that we must go through. Sometimes, those changes are joyful, like the birth of a new baby. Other times, those changes involve loss, uncertainty, and ultimately end with divorce.
There's no doubt that divorces are unpleasant. Sometimes, they're unavoidable. According to recent statistics, there were 2.4 divorces per every thousand residents in South Carolina. If you're one of the many people suffering through the pain of a divorce, dealing with a custody issue, or trying to juggle a family-related legal problem, you're not alone. At Lauren Taylor Law, many of our family law clients have major questions about what lies ahead. Their uncertainty often leaves them extra stressed and over-worried. They have concerns about their marriage, their kids, or both. After being served confusing papers from their spouse, they're wrestling with the anxiety of the unknown.
If that sounds all too familiar, a divorce attorney in Saluda, SC, can help, whether you need a seasoned advocate in the courtroom or an unbiased moderator behind closed doors. Unsure whether a divorce attorney is truly necessary at this stage? Ask yourself these questions:
If the answer to any of those questions was "yes," Lauren Taylor Law is here to stand by your side during one of the most difficult times in your life. Our law firm in several areas of family law, including:
There are few events in your life more infuriating and traumatic than a divorce. If you're like most, it feels like you're on an emotional roller coaster with life-changing legal and family consequences around every turn. During this difficult time, it's crucial to have a divorce attorney in Saluda, SC, on your side. That way, you can overcome the hurdles of divorce, achieve the outcome you need, and move on with your life.
Whether you're the one seeking out a divorce or it's your spouse's choice, making the decision isn't ever easy. After all, divorce is painful. When you took your wedding vows, you expected a life with your partner until death separated you. You spent untold amounts of money on a beautiful wedding, caterers, musicians, and more. You invited your high school friends from South Carolina and spent time together with out-of-towners who flew in, especially for you.
Unfortunately, reality is starting to set in: You won't be married to the person who once told you, "I do." Truth be told, getting a divorce is a heartbreaking turn of events. But now, more than ever, it's important to retain experienced legal counsel to oversee your divorce proceedings. Having helped many clients through the process of divorce, we know you may think that everything is falling apart around you. But as successful divorce lawyers in South Carolina, we have the proverbial tools to help you pick up the pieces and start fresh.
During your first divorce consultation at our offices, our primary goal is to hear your story. We simply want to listen. We want to understand your desires, fears, needs, and questions about divorce. Once we've had the opportunity to understand your needs, we will continue to ask pertinent questions. Why? Because listening and understanding the nuances of your story helps us do the very best job possible. After all, as your divorce attorney in Saluda, SC, your best interests are our primary concern.
At Lauren Taylor Law, we find providing a personalized approach helps us better serve our clients. Unlike other divorce lawyers, we don't believe in "cookie-cutter" or "one-size-fits-all" solutions. Your divorce is unique, and your lawyer's strategy should be, too. Our team will help by:
By advocating for you during your divorce, Lauren Taylor Law will help you make the first steps toward reclaiming your life and securing your future.
It's safe to say that nobody goes into a marriage expecting to get a divorce. But for many couples, divorce proves to be in their family's best interest. Before you go through with such a serious choice, it's prudent to ensure that you and your spouse agree that divorce is best. Sometimes, therapy or marriage counseling can save marriages. That's especially important if you have kids with your spouse.
If you have made efforts to salvage your marriage and have concluded that divorce is the only option, our team of passionate divorce lawyers is here to help. Divorces are complicated and often contentious, but in South Carolina, getting a divorce is different than in other states.
For example, in other areas of the United States, judges are obligated to split marital assets equally between spouses. However, South Carolina is not classified as a community property state. The judge in your divorce case could award your husband or wife a larger portion of the marital property you once shared. That scenario is even more likely if the judge decides you were the ultimate cause of the divorce.
Similarly, divorce judges in South Carolina have a higher chance of making you pay more substantial alimony payments for longer periods of time when compared to other states. To make matters even more complicated, divorce laws and tax consequences in South Carolina change often. Additionally, our state does not recognize the concept of "irreconcilable differences," meaning you cannot use it as a reason to divorce your spouse (or vice versa).
In order to get a divorce in the state of South Carolina, a person must have legal grounds to do so. As such, you have two options:
Many couples opt for a no-fault divorce, but in order to qualify, you and your spouse must prove that you haven't been living together for at least a year. Choosing this option is popular because it often helps couples avoid getting in a fight when one spouse blames the other for the marriage breakup.
Apart from one year of continuous separation, which is grounds for a no-fault divorce, the legal grounds for divorce in South Carolina include:
Each fault-based reason listed above can play a part in the outcome of your divorce case, including decisions on child custody, alimony, division of debts, and division of marital property. When you account for the unique nature of divorces in Saluda and the rest of the state, foregoing a divorce attorney is a poor decision.
It's possible to get divorced in South Carolina without needing a lawyer. However, we've encountered situations where clients come to Lauren Taylor Law because they tried the process on their own with no success. When it comes to divorces in South Carolina, there are many procedural requirements to meet.
Your paperwork must be correct across the board. For instance, you and your spouse must both file accurate financial declarations in family court. If you've come up with a divorce agreement, the family court must still decide whether it's equitable and fair for your spouse and in the best interests of your kids.
If you choose to try and get a divorce in South Carolina on your own, we strongly recommend that you schedule a consultation at the very least. That way, you know your rights and have a minimum understanding of the divorce process in South Carolina.
Some of the most common benefits of hiring a divorce lawyer include:
Child custody cases present unique challenges for you, your spouse, and your family law attorney. They are almost all resolved through mediation or settlement conferences.
Unfortunately, when two parents have disagreements about child custody, calm discussions often devolve into quarrels and contentious disputes. If you and your spouse do not agree about visitation and custody rights for your child or children, a divorce judge will make those tough decisions for you. In this circumstance, child custody is determined by what the judge deems as the best interests of your children.
Fortunately, contrary to urban myth, divorce laws in South Carolina do not favor mothers of fathers or vice versa when it comes to child visitation and custody. There is also no "standard" schedule presented for child visitation. Factors that your divorce judge will pay close attention to include:
At the end of the day, children have the right to love each parent freely. However, protecting children during a custody battle is crucial. At Lauren Taylor Law, our team works closely with you, your children's Guardian Ad Litem (who represents the children in the legal case), their school teachers, and any third party working with your children. Advocacy for the best interest of your children requires deep understanding, legal skills, and years of relevant experience. With the Lauren Taylor Team in Saluda, SC, you can rest easy knowing your child's future is of utmost importance.
If you're getting a divorce, and you have a child or children with your former spouse, there's a good chance you're worried about how much child support you'll have to pay. You may be wondering, "How is child support in South Carolina determined?"
The amount of child support you must pay is dictated by the child support guidelines in South Carolina. These guidelines not only calculate temporary child support but permanent support as well. These guidelines are applied to any case where the parent's gross combined income is less than $15,000 a month. According to the law, child support amounts are calculated with these factors in mind:
Without a divorce attorney in Saluda, SC, navigating the turbulent waters of child support is nearly impossible. With years of experience, we have the tools and resources to protect your rights and guide you through the child support process. To get a rough estimate of how much child support you will need to pay in your divorce, contact Lauren Taylor Law today.
Alimony is financial support that you must pay to your former spouse. In South Carolina, there are different types of alimony. Permanent, periodic alimony is paid on a set schedule over time. However, alimony terminates when you or your spouse dies or when a receiving spouse begins to cohabitate with another person or chooses to remarry. Alimony in South Carolina can be modified based on a showing of a substantial change in circumstances.
In some cases, spouses choose to pay a lump sum alimony. The amount is agreed upon by both parties. This can usually be paid all at once or in a schedule of payments. It should be noted that spousal support may be ordered, pending your final divorce.
South Carolina law requires Family Law Courts to consider a number of factors in making a ruling on an alimony request. Those factors include:
To learn more about laws and factors regarding alimony in South Carolina, call or click to speak with someone who can help at no obligation to you.
There's no way around it - divorce is an unpleasant and sometimes unavoidable part of being an adult. As you consider taking this major step, you must consult with a seasoned divorce lawyer who knows the intricacies and challenges of divorce law in South Carolina. If you have given the subject plenty of thought and diligence and decided that divorce is your best option, the time to act is now. Contact Lauren Taylor Law today so that you can proceed with confidence tomorrow.
Crowds of people from near and far lined the streets of downtown Saluda on Thursday to welcome the Walk for Peace, some out of curiosity, others in search of a deeply personal experience in the presence of two dozen Buddhist monks.The monks are making their way across South Carolina as part of a months-long walk across the country from their home temple in Texas all the way to Washington, D.C. Traveling on foot, the monks are expected to arrive in Columbia by Saturday.Like in other stops along the way, the caravan attracted hun...
Crowds of people from near and far lined the streets of downtown Saluda on Thursday to welcome the Walk for Peace, some out of curiosity, others in search of a deeply personal experience in the presence of two dozen Buddhist monks.
The monks are making their way across South Carolina as part of a months-long walk across the country from their home temple in Texas all the way to Washington, D.C. Traveling on foot, the monks are expected to arrive in Columbia by Saturday.
Like in other stops along the way, the caravan attracted hundreds of onlookers at the monks’ previously announced stopping point on the lawn of the Saluda County Courthouse. The monks collected flowers from well-wishers as they walked down Church Street escorted by local law enforcement at 11:30 a.m., hours after they left a country church in Edgefield County 13 miles away.
They settled down in a taped-off area under a shady tree with the walk’s mascot Aloka the Peace Dog and ate a vegetarian meal which had been prepared by an advance team, which was also shared with any hungry members of the public. Then the crowd listened to a talk from the Venerable Pannakara, the leader of the walk who addressed the assembled crowd through a crackling sound system.
The Walk for Peace has attracted national attention, partly through an active social media presence by the monks themselves documenting the trip. But the monk said he was inspired to make the trek because of his work doing international disaster relief, and seeing suffering and depression up close. His Buddhist practice is dedicated to alleviating that kind of suffering.
“Am I going to stay in this temple and serve the community here, or should I take this walk and share the message with the entire world,” Pannakara said.
Marge Uhen drove up from Florida to connect with the walk as it made its way across South Carolina, saying the phenomenon had left her with a sense of peace in uncertain times.
“You see what’s going on, it’s scary,” Uhen said, referencing the shooting the day before of a Minneapolis woman by an ICE agent. “The world is falling apart. This gives me hope. I see them and a peaceful feeling fills me up.”
Julie Cline was inspired to come down from Clemson because of her memories of the Buddhists she met on a trip to Sri Lanka.
“I have never met kinder people than Buddhist people,” Cline said. “I want to learn more about the philosophy and show my support for the Buddhist community.... People are looking for true love and kindness.”
Not everyone was welcoming to the contingent. A man who declined to give his full name was protesting the monks’ visit with a personal speaker system and a sign warning of the dangers of hell, over the occasional shouts and heckles of the rest of the crowd.
“If you are a friend of these men, then unfortunately you are an enemy of God,” he said.
The monks had no interaction with the protester during their visit to Saluda, but Cline said she had seen the monks encounter similar protesters at other stops.
“They hear them out, then they smile and bow,” she said.
Paige Watson was driven to greet the monks from Columbia by memories of her grandmother, who was born in Thailand.
“This is a part of my culture,” she said. “My main expectation is to show my baby cousin what this experience is like and ask them questions. I’d love to greet them in their native tongue and pray with them.”
Saluda County officials made contact with the monks’ advance person the day before their arrival and coordinated locations for them to stop, said Emergency Management Director Josh Morton. Sheriff’s deputies met the monk as they crossed into the county and would stay with them overnight during their stay at Nazareth Methodist Church further down U.S. 378.
Speaking to the crowd, Pannakara encouraged a practice of mindfulness on the present moment as an antidote to worries and pain, and even led the crowd through some breathing techniques.
“When you’re mindful, it’s not as easy to be triggered,” he said, his bare feet on the courthouse steps wrapped in tape. “On the Walk for Peace, I take every step in mindfulness. I’ve had illness like anybody else. My health is not as good. But the mind is different. You can train it to be strong or weak.”
After the talk, Pannakara accepted a sheriff’s badge from the county and added it to similar badges from other stops on the walk to his robe. The monks then distributed peace bracelets to the crowd and posed for pictures.
Kelly Arrington of Batesburg greeted Pannakara with tears in her eyes. She lost her son to suicide and has been dealing with her grief through mindfulness and yoga.
“I had to decide if I was going to be bitter and angry, or if I was going to be grateful for the 25 years I had with him,” Arrington said. “I agree young people are not equipped to deal with this world, and I just hope that hearing this will save someone else’s son.”
The monks are about halfway through their 2,300-mile journey, which started Oct. 26 and is expected to take 120 days to reach its final destination. The monks are expected to pass through Lexington County on Friday and reach Columbia on Saturday. Their movements can be tracked on a live online map updated daily.
SALUDA, S.C. (WRDW/WAGT) - Three “rough road” warning signs greet drivers who turn onto Church Road in Saluda County, marking a three-mile stretch that neighbors say represents a longstanding problem and a symbol of state inaction.Jack Paget, who has lived along Church Road off Batesburg Highway his whole life, said the deteriorating conditions force drivers to crawl at dangerous speeds.“Church Road is the roughest road in Saluda County. And all they’ll do is put a patch on top of a patch,” Paget s...
SALUDA, S.C. (WRDW/WAGT) - Three “rough road” warning signs greet drivers who turn onto Church Road in Saluda County, marking a three-mile stretch that neighbors say represents a longstanding problem and a symbol of state inaction.
Jack Paget, who has lived along Church Road off Batesburg Highway his whole life, said the deteriorating conditions force drivers to crawl at dangerous speeds.
“Church Road is the roughest road in Saluda County. And all they’ll do is put a patch on top of a patch,” Paget said. “No faster than 20-25 mph, because if you go faster than that, you’ll tear up your tires, anything you’re driving, because it’ll mess up the shocks and everything on it.”
Will Black said the recent patching work described by the South Carolina Department of Transportation as ongoing doesn’t provide lasting solutions.
“It’s pretty bad. There are potholes everywhere. It’s a terrible road,” Black said.
State data shows eight crashes on Church Road over the last five years, resulting in two people being injured. Debbie Black said the road’s narrow width adds to safety hazards.
“It’s dangerous here because there’s low visibility. There are no reflectors. There’s nothing ... So if you have two cars passing, if it’s at night, it would be fairly easy to miss a turn,” Black said.
Many residents take issue with installing permanent warning signs rather than permanent repairs.
“My tax dollars at work. So, I mean, it’s a joke,” Black said.
Paget questioned why the state acknowledges the problem but hasn’t addressed it.
“They already know it’s a rough road. Why haven’t they done something about it?” he said. “It makes us feel like they don’t care whether we have a road out here or not.”
The South Carolina Department of Transportation says Church Road has been targeted for resurfacing, but there’s no current project scheduled.
SCDOT did not respond to questions about when the road was last repaved, when the warning signs were installed, or whether the road could be widened.
Crowds of people from near and far lined the streets of downtown Saluda on Thursday to welcome the Walk for Peace, some out of curiosity, others in search of a deeply personal experience in the presence of two dozen Buddhist monks.The monks are making their way across South Carolina as part of a months-long walk across the country from their home temple in Texas all the way to Washington, D.C. Traveling on foot, the monks are expected to arrive in Columbia by Saturday.Like in other stops along the way, the caravan attracted hun...
Crowds of people from near and far lined the streets of downtown Saluda on Thursday to welcome the Walk for Peace, some out of curiosity, others in search of a deeply personal experience in the presence of two dozen Buddhist monks.
The monks are making their way across South Carolina as part of a months-long walk across the country from their home temple in Texas all the way to Washington, D.C. Traveling on foot, the monks are expected to arrive in Columbia by Saturday.
Like in other stops along the way, the caravan attracted hundreds of onlookers at the monks’ previously announced stopping point on the lawn of the Saluda County Courthouse. The monks collected flowers from well-wishers as they walked down Church Street escorted by local law enforcement at 11:30 a.m., hours after they left a country church in Edgefield County 13 miles away.
They settled down in a taped-off area under a shady tree with the walk’s mascot Aloka the Peace Dog and ate a vegetarian meal which had been prepared by an advance team, which was also shared with any hungry members of the public. Then the crowd listened to a talk from the Venerable Pannakara, the leader of the walk who addressed the assembled crowd through a crackling sound system.
The Walk for Peace has attracted national attention, partly through an active social media presence by the monks themselves documenting the trip. But the monk said he was inspired to make the trek because of his work doing international disaster relief, and seeing suffering and depression up close. His Buddhist practice is dedicated to alleviating that kind of suffering.
“Am I going to stay in this temple and serve the community here, or should I take this walk and share the message with the entire world,” Pannakara said.
Marge Uhen drove up from Florida to connect with the walk as it made its way across South Carolina, saying the phenomenon had left her with a sense of peace in uncertain times.
“You see what’s going on, it’s scary,” Uhen said, referencing the shooting the day before of a Minneapolis woman by an ICE agent. “The world is falling apart. This gives me hope. I see them and a peaceful feeling fills me up.”
Julie Cline was inspired to come down from Clemson because of her memories of the Buddhists she met on a trip to Sri Lanka.
“I have never met kinder people than Buddhist people,” Cline said. “I want to learn more about the philosophy and show my support for the Buddhist community.... People are looking for true love and kindness.”
Not everyone was welcoming to the contingent. A man who declined to give his full name was protesting the monks’ visit with a personal speaker system and a sign warning of the dangers of hell, over the occasional shouts and heckles of the rest of the crowd.
“If you are a friend of these men, then unfortunately you are an enemy of God,” he said.
The monks had no interaction with the protester during their visit to Saluda, but Cline said she had seen the monks encounter similar protesters at other stops.
“They hear them out, then they smile and bow,” she said.
Paige Watson was driven to greet the monks from Columbia by memories of her grandmother, who was born in Thailand.
“This is a part of my culture,” she said. “My main expectation is to show my baby cousin what this experience is like and ask them questions. I’d love to greet them in their native tongue and pray with them.”
Saluda County officials made contact with the monks’ advance person the day before their arrival and coordinated locations for them to stop, said Emergency Management Director Josh Morton. Sheriff’s deputies met the monk as they crossed into the county and would stay with them overnight during their stay at Nazareth Methodist Church further down U.S. 378.
Speaking to the crowd, Pannakara encouraged a practice of mindfulness on the present moment as an antidote to worries and pain, and even led the crowd through some breathing techniques.
“When you’re mindful, it’s not as easy to be triggered,” he said, his bare feet on the courthouse steps wrapped in tape. “On the Walk for Peace, I take every step in mindfulness. I’ve had illness like anybody else. My health is not as good. But the mind is different. You can train it to be strong or weak.”
After the talk, Pannakara accepted a sheriff’s badge from the county and added it to similar badges from other stops on the walk to his robe. The monks then distributed peace bracelets to the crowd and posed for pictures.
Kelly Arrington of Batesburg greeted Pannakara with tears in her eyes. She lost her son to suicide and has been dealing with her grief through mindfulness and yoga.
“I had to decide if I was going to be bitter and angry, or if I was going to be grateful for the 25 years I had with him,” Arrington said. “I agree young people are not equipped to deal with this world, and I just hope that hearing this will save someone else’s son.”
The monks are about halfway through their 2,300-mile journey, which started Oct. 26 and is expected to take 120 days to reach its final destination. The monks are expected to pass through Lexington County on Friday and reach Columbia on Saturday. Their movements can be tracked on a live online map updated daily.
Times, locations for Monks’ visit to ColumbiaSouth Carolina nonprofit Be the Ones is partnering with Walk for Peace to host two events Saturday afternoon, one in West Columbia and the other at the S.C. Statehouse in Columbia.The first event is scheduled for 2 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 10 on the West Columbia side of the Gervais Street Bridge.Between 3 and 4 p.m., the monks and Aloka will gather at the S.C. Statehouse (110 Gervais St.). The monks will be recognized with proclamations from Columbia Mayor Daniel Ricken...
South Carolina nonprofit Be the Ones is partnering with Walk for Peace to host two events Saturday afternoon, one in West Columbia and the other at the S.C. Statehouse in Columbia.
The first event is scheduled for 2 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 10 on the West Columbia side of the Gervais Street Bridge.
Between 3 and 4 p.m., the monks and Aloka will gather at the S.C. Statehouse (110 Gervais St.). The monks will be recognized with proclamations from Columbia Mayor Daniel Rickenmann and state Sen. Deon Tedder, D-Charleston.
“We believe peace starts locally, with how we show up for one another, listen, and act with care and compassion,” Cate Mayer, Be the Ones founder and executive director, said in a press release. “We’re grateful to work in coordination with the Walk for Peace team to help create meaningful spaces for reflection, connection, and shared commitment here in Columbia and across South Carolina.”
When greeting the monks, there are a few things to keep in mind:
According to the Abhayagiri Monastery, the most common way to greet a Buddhist monk is with the añjali. This is when you press your palms together in font of your chest.
“It is a gesture of respect that can be used as a greeting, a goodbye, a thank-you or when speaking with one of the monastics,” the monastery advised.
The monks stopped in Edgefield County Jan. 7 where they were greeted by a few hundred supporters and one protestor, whom they gifted a flower and bottle of water, according to reporting from The Aiken Standard.